Tag: #gratitude

  • Reversi : A Journey Through Time and Choices

    Reversi : A Journey Through Time and Choices

    Last night, I took a detour from my usual watchlist. Not typically a fan of Korean cinema, I decided to shake off the monotony and hit play on Reversi, a slow, time-loop drama I had heard whispers about.

    And wow. What I thought would be just another film turned into a full-blown emotional avalanche.

    By the end, I sat there—quiet, heavy-hearted, overwhelmed. Not by any dramatic twist or tearjerker climax, but by something far deeper: regret… and gratitude.

    How many times have we looked back and thought:

    • “I wish I had bought that bike earlier.”
    • “If only I had invested more in that stock.”
    • “I should’ve worked harder.”
    • “Why didn’t I take that leap of faith?”

    The endless “if onlys” and “what ifs”—they pile up silently over time like unopened letters, each one carrying a weight we didn’t sign up for.

    How many “if” moments do you carry?
    How many regrets are quietly living rent-free in your mind?
    But here’s a tougher one:
    How many times have you truly celebrated the choices you did make?

    Reversi dives into that emotional battlefield. It reminded me of another gem—Oh My Kadavule—which beautifully explored the same truth: Time is the most valuable currency we own.


    And here’s what I’ve come to realize:

    • Whatever your life looks like right now—it’s unfolding at its own perfect pace.
    • The roof over your head, the hands that help, the meals on your table, the bike you ride, the people you love—they are not accidents.
    • They are your timeline. Your story. Your truth.

    We often fantasize about an alternate reality. But the truth is: You’re already living the best version of your life.
    Not because it’s perfect. But because it’s yours.

    So, to the one still haunted by the “could haves” and “should haves”…

    Pause. Breathe. Look around.
    You have more than you think.
    You are more than you think.

    Reversi is not a movie for the faint-hearted. But it’s a quiet masterpiece. One that nudges you—gently, yet powerfully—to appreciate the now.

    Because sometimes, the only thing we really need… is perspective.

    Adios, amigos. Until next time—choose today. Love now. Regret less.

  • Nothing Urgent, Everything Important.

    Nothing Urgent, Everything Important.

    -One minute, infinite thoughts.

    What new can I do today?
    What progress am I making?
    What is it that I overthink about?
    Why should I skip gym today?
    How can I be a couch potato with purpose?

    Usually, these questions chase me the moment I open my eyes. But not today. Today, they can hit pause.

    Instead, I enjoyed the warm sunshine, stayed still, let the breeze do the talking, and for once, let myself just be. I thought of every person who has shaped me — parents, siblings, family, friends, even fleeting strangers. I played their names on loop in my mind, silently thanking them for the lessons, laughter, and moments that stitched me into who I am today.

    I don’t know what the future holds, but I know this — come what may, I’ll grind through it. No time to look back usually, but today, I will — to smile at the path I’ve walked and the person I’ve become.

    As I take a slow sip of my favourite coffee, there’s one thing I can’t help but notice:

    Some days are just meant to be soft celebrations in disguise.

    — Inspired by Shaan Puri ‘s OMB (One Minute Blog). Personal. Raw. Real.